Dear PLS,
I know this is a website for girls, but I’m a guy. Here’s my question: All the guys I know like the same girl. It makes me mad because I’ve liked her the longest. How can I tell those other guys to back off?

Signed,
A Guy

Dear Guy,
We’re happy to know that guys like our website, too. Everyone is welcome here! But back to your question. It stinks when too many people – especially friends – like the same person.

In some ways, it’s like in soccer or basketball when everyone is fighting for the ball. Hey, that’s mine! Give it here! But a girl (or a guy) isn’t a piece of sporting equipment. People aren’t property, so there’s no sense telling other boys they shouldn’t like your girl.

But you can tell this girl that you like her and see what happens. Even though you liked her first, it’s up to her to decide whom she likes. Maybe she likes you, too. But be kind if she just wants to be friends.

Think pink (or blue)!
The PLS

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