Her crush moved away
Summer seems like a romantic time with all the starry nights and crickets chirping, but some girls are writing in saying they feel kinda sad. Why? Because they like someone and they haven't seen him since school let out. D.G. has it even worse. Her crush just moved away.Does anyone have advice for getting over someone who's gone away?
Dear PLS,
This is the third time i've asked this question!!! My crush moved and i was really close to .I've been crying. What should i do?
D.G., 11
Awww...D.G. I'm sorry you've been so sad. I'd say wipe your tears and find something to keep you busy. Take on a project like planting in your garden or taking up a new sport. Tennis, anyone? It doesn't mean you won't miss your crush, but I think it helps to be out and about when you feel bummed. What else, girls? Any advice for D.G.?
Think pink!
Jemma
posted by Jemma at
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It's OK just keep yourself busy avoid thinking about him.Spend time with friends.
call him...or email him!! Or write him romantic letters!LOL!!
i think you should just forget him !! its just a crush right ?? but if you have been crying then mabey its more then a crush ?? i agree with lizzie.. try emailing him if you have his email address if you don't ask one of his buddies if he has already moved away...you can always stay in touch ! if that does not work then yes, you should try some fun activities especially hanging out with your friends !! there always the people who can also give you great advice !! i dont know about you but im the cheerful girl who can always make someone laugh, smile, and help them when there down ! also try talking to your older sister if you have one (especially if you guys are close), or your mom if your close with her to ! eventally you will realize that there are other guys who are just as cute and great !
This has happened to me to. If you know were he lives you can write to him. But here's my question "Is this boy you think you would get married to someday?", if the answer is no, then you could be a little less upset about it. And think of this to, you will meet other people someday too.
I agree with Anya, you should just forget about him move on see other people.
Theres plenty more fish in the sea.
Just have fun, hanging around with friends.
eh my god i know how you feel X X X i wouldn't worry about it too much, because at this point there isn't much you can do. just write a list about everything good about him, and refer to it everyday, and try and keep in touch with him by sending him letters, to let him know that you still care about him
hope you recover soon
XX
could you tell us wat happens?? like post wat happens
Well, I just moved away from my crush. But think, if they moved away, it just wasn't meant to be. Besides, I found someone even better!
Try not to cry because you can always call your crush or you and your crush can get together on the weekends and hangout.
itll deffinitlly take time to move on, honestly i have been in this situation to, like everyone else said, try emailing him or even texting him. When i started emailing my cruch that moved away, we actually became really close friends. Everybody needs to cry it out sometimes, so just cry it out. But dont let him moving away ruin your fun and your summer, you deserve to smile :)
I understand how it feels like to have a crush than them moving away.Although you're only 11 you still have a lot of time to live.I predict you're gonna have more crushes and some people may crush on you so there isn't much to worry about.If you still miss him just avoid thinking0 of him.
if u can't call him or email him, don't worry! maybe u should try to get ur mind off him. do other things! spend time with family and friends! go places! and what ever u do, don't obsess about it! cuz really, ur only 11!!!!!
Ayla, 15
stop crying some guys are just not worth it and you might find someone even better
Don't be sad, you can find another boyfriend or you could ask one of his buddies for his email address. If that doesn't work don't worry u r only 11!
Thats sad but when someone moves away you can just email,aim,meebo and theres many more techonology to keep in touch. And proboly you to werent meant to be. Keep believing in anything you put your mind to maybe you can have a long distance realationship.
Hope everything turns out well
Megan
Maybe find out if he is thinking about you too. Did he like you too?
- Brittany
hey i know how you feel. im crying here in my room. and dont worry i mean i really liked a boy named carson but hes moving so i just thought i had to move on and i know this isnt goo advice but
My crush moved away to Japan. He said we can video chat,e-mail and even call each other. We we're so close to be together. But, when I try to he never answers. Do he still like me?
Hey! I had a crush in public school. Now i am homeschooled. UGH! I want to get in contact with him but idk how. My friend says hi to him for me every now and then. What should I do? JENNA PLEASE ANSWEER MY QUESTION!!! I BEG OF YOU!!!
this is for you taytay,
i know a girl who is homeschooled and she still plans movie nights and stuff at her house with her old (boy and girl) bff's. how about YOU plan a movie night at ur house!(or the movies) just write notes and invite your old bff's and crush (and dont forget to invite his friends too!) you can give the notes to your friend and tell her to give them to the people! hope it helped!
P.S. dont forget snacks and at the end of the night dont forget to say "we should all hang out again sometime" and just try to have a nice time because if u have fun they will too and chances are the people u invited probably miss you!!!!!!!!!! i wish u good luck taytay!
Hi DG, these are 3 tips for any one I've learned the same way as you are going to learn now:
1)If you really were serious about him, try keeping in touch with him thru the net or or meet up every once a while if he's in town.if you become friends that way, you definitely can't lose him!
2)If you are shy or its impossible for you two to be together,don't think of him(it was just a crush!)and ask your friends to help you keep him out of your mind by getting involved in a lot of activities or a new skill.
3)Forget him!It's a huge world of guys out there and very soon you will find some one else! GOOD LUCK!!!! Saasha
yeah,same thing happend to me,cept I moved away.i was really sad but then i started to like my bffls bro....hes 9th grade im in 8th grade,its rele awesome cuz he likes meh to.
I had the same problame-o, but it was when I was in third grade. The guy was sooooooo sweet and he would stand up for me. It was sooo cute. Then right in the middle of it, he moved away. I've missed him ever since, but I just don't let it bother me anymore. Just try and look at the bright things in life.
when your crush has moved away do something don't sit in your house and think about him do something you like whether it's gardening or pottery do something to take your mind off him after a while you won't miss him and probably get a new crush it is a bit hard to understand now but after a while you'll understand
Even though ur crush moved away it doesn't mean it's the end of the world. think of things 2 take him off ur mind. u can always find a new crush 2.
well when i was in first grade i had a crush but in summer break i moved and i still do misshim because i dont think that i will like any one more than i liked him but life keeps going and you have to go on with it right now i have a new crush but i wont ever forget my firt crush and mabe some day you may see him again.
FIND ANOTHER ONE!!!!!!!
well, i know how that can be. my crush and i used to have the exact same schedule. the prob was, that he was super smart so he took the more advanced classes and skipped some of homeroom. unfortunately, it got in the way of too many other classes and he changed schedules! i still see him but i'm still sad. so it's got to be torture for you. it'll feel like you'll never find love again. but maybe in a few months you'll find out that you're better off without him. that's what happened with me. i can shine in class now without my crush getting called on every question. think about the possitives of him moving. don't drown in the neggatives. find somebody that was close to him and knows a lot about him. they'll be just as sad and you can hang out with him/her and have a new crush and a new friend!
I've recently lost my best guy friend and ive been IN LOVE with him for over a year and a half. It's complicated... We have always been really good friends but ive always loved him. We met on my birthday last year on msn. A friend was at my house and she already went to school with him so i was meeting her friends on msn,because I would be going to that school in the upcomming fall. I liked him alot. But little did I know what I would be falling into. We became best friends but he had a thing for my best friend and my enemy. It seemed like everyone but me. Because we were best friends he would tell me about the girls and ask for advise... And stupid me I just went along with it crying all the time. We would talk all night long litterally. Whatch tv over the phone. Sunsets over the phone . Hang out. Go to hockey games . Everything. It was like a farytale/heartake. then as the year went on.. we started to drift a bit because I couldn't take it anymore.. And I do sports and he dosen't. He told be he would be moving over the summer so I made him a magnificant scrapbook and he ended up not moving.. I got a bit ANGERY! But never said anything. School started again and we were still pretty close. He was going toi "move" over Christmas break. I tohught it was just a lie again so i didnt really take it serioustly.. He saved me the last dance at the dance and told me that I was the one he wanted to dance with that day. That was the last time I ever saw him, How can I give him up? What should i write him in an e mail?
This is 4 Rachel:
Don't be worried about him forgetting you. I mean, it must be soooo busy and complicated moving all the way to Japan! if he liked you enough to suggest keeping in touch, then he probably intends to. he'll e-mail you or something eventually.
I hope this is helpful!
-Chloe
awwwwwwwwww sorry ihope u feel better
Dear D.G:I have a situation like this one all ready.I had have a crush on this super cute guy who was one of my friends on the school.Finally when I was up to tell him That I had a crush on him he move to another school.Iwas sad for months but then I forget it.He dont deserves that I cry like that for him so I forget him and when I find him in some plases I act normally.
hope my comment help
April
Don't worry. I know how you feel. The boy I loved moved away almost a year ago. After a while your gonna have to move on. Try hanging out with your friends it should help you get your mind off of him.
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