Her BFF has an attitude
Hi all,
Being confident is a strange thing. People say you should like yourself and be proud of yourself. But what if someone acts SUPERIOR to everyone else? Is that confidence gone too far? That's what our friend below is asking today.
Dear PLS,
What do you do if your bff is acting like she is way better than you??
=), 14
What do you think about this one? What kind of advice can we give =)? Seems to me you shouldn't be sooooo confident in yourself that you make other people feel bad. This article on self-esteem - how a person feels about herself - could be helpful.
What other advice do you guys have?
Think pink!
Jemma
Being confident is a strange thing. People say you should like yourself and be proud of yourself. But what if someone acts SUPERIOR to everyone else? Is that confidence gone too far? That's what our friend below is asking today.
Dear PLS,
What do you do if your bff is acting like she is way better than you??
=), 14
What do you think about this one? What kind of advice can we give =)? Seems to me you shouldn't be sooooo confident in yourself that you make other people feel bad. This article on self-esteem - how a person feels about herself - could be helpful.
What other advice do you guys have?
Think pink!
Jemma
posted by Jemma at
8:19 AM
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Hi! I'd try talking to your friend about it. And if you're to afraid to do that (I probably would be.) You might just have to wait it out. Hope this helps! :)
i think that you should talk to her or try hanging out with someone else
I agree with Lacey talk to her or find someone else.
i had the same problem id say find someone else but it usely depends on how long u hav bin friends!!!!!
ask her what she is doing!
if she doesnt care, ask ur parents 2 help u!
Tell her next time she acts like that,"I really don't like when you act like this. Please stop." That should fix the problem.
you should just tell her how you think that she's acting kinda stuck up. if she keeps acting like she doesnt care and won't agree with you, i say find a friend who'll give you some respect. :)
everyone is created equal: don't let her walk all over you. but don't just dump her without an explanation, that would be unfair to her. my advice: find more friends who treat you better but don't leave her hanging. tell her what she's doing wrong, she may not even realize it!
hope i helped -
veronica t. 12
If it were me, I would think about how to talk to her about it. Maybe say something like "Why do you always act like you are better then me {in a light, interested tone}? It hurts my feelings. Do you think that we could find a compromise?" Or something like that...
I also have a friend who thinks she is better than me. Just because she is way thinner than me and has longer hair she thinks she is all-that. Well God said we were all created in his image, so no one is better than you. We are all equal. Also since my friend is so cocky, no one likes her. THats what being like that gets you!
i had an issue like that once and she was so bossy i had to ask her to breathe in her house (not really but thats kinda how bossy) but there are going to be girls like that. God has made us all equal and some girls don't except the fact and that is their issue.
ur problem is almost exactly like mine. My bf thinks she cool and everything because she is kinda popular so she is like taking other popular kids with her and leaving me behind.
i have a friend who is my bff but she kept on accusing me in front of my teachers and at the cafeteria, she gave me a tight slap and accused me of stealing her boyfriend(which i so did not!)and took my food and dump it on the floor but when her boyfriend saw it, he scolded her and comfort me the truth is i like him alot but i know that we are not meant to be together. if even we want to be, we still have alot of problems ahead of us. i like him and he like me(beacuse found her too bossy and kept on bugging him)dear pls what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ma friand is realy annoyin me cos in r school we are put into group classes and me and ma friend r in diferent 1s so we mess around and say stuff lik r group's better than urs and stuff den she fites bac (even though r group is da best) and den makes out dat shes really good friends wif ppl in my group and ders dis boy christie who doesnt no who she is and shes all lik sup christie and all and shes really startin 2 annoy me big time and i dont want 2 say anyting bout cos she has 2nd yr friends on r bus and i dont no any1 apart from ma brother who pretends nt 2 no me unless thers girls around who tik am cute cos am yr8 and der yr11 so if i fall out wif her am left sittin on ma own on da bus and wen we get 2 school r bus gets in 1/2 hour early and ma other bff gets in at 9:00 mostly!
hi i had a friend like that once whenever we competed even if it was somthing little she would always say she won she was way to competitive with me i got really upset so one day i sat down and talked to her and she didnt even relise how competitive she was being and how she was hurting me
hope this helps!!!!!
me and my bffl have known eachother for 10 years. Now she hung with some snotty girls and guys and she acts like she barely knows me at skool but then after skool shell ask 2 hang but i do but it feels like she is drifting away from our friend shiip wat shall i do?
well of someone thinks they're beter than you they might want to think twice. Either that or think about everything that is good about yourself
Hey people im new in this blog thing so ya do u guys have anything on self esteem im really low and need a refill lol
my best friend was outside with me and i turn my back for one minute and then she was cuddling with my boyfriend
i have a friend like that too...i didn't even do anyting to hr and she is acting like she is better than me. im starting to doubt our friendship, but there is no one else to hang out wit,wat do i do
We have had too many issues like that. You just have to deal with ittttt. But tell her that you feel she has an attitude. Aris and Bella. ( Caramel and Chocolate )
i had the same prob. dont try to talk to her if she is going to act the way she is. find someone new to talk to. i bet you are better than her in a way
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