She's in the middle of a big BFF fight
Those of us who are blessed to have more than one BFF will understand this problem. Jade says her two BFFs are fighting and she's caught in the middle.
Dear PLS,
My two best friends are fighting!!! I try to talk them into forgiving each other and none of them would and it's driving me crazy cause both of them wants to hang out with me and if I hang out with one of them the other one gets mad. WHAT AM I GONNA DO?
Jade, 13
Have you ever been stuck in the middle of a fight between your BFFs? Oh my, I guess I'd just do everything possible to get them together to work it out. My advice to Jade is to put her foot down and say: I will hang out with both of you, not just one of you.
What do you think? Let's give Jade some advice to hopefully solve this messy BFF situation!
Think pink!
Jemma
Dear PLS,
My two best friends are fighting!!! I try to talk them into forgiving each other and none of them would and it's driving me crazy cause both of them wants to hang out with me and if I hang out with one of them the other one gets mad. WHAT AM I GONNA DO?
Jade, 13
Have you ever been stuck in the middle of a fight between your BFFs? Oh my, I guess I'd just do everything possible to get them together to work it out. My advice to Jade is to put her foot down and say: I will hang out with both of you, not just one of you.
What do you think? Let's give Jade some advice to hopefully solve this messy BFF situation!
Think pink!
Jemma
posted by Jemma at
11:02 PM
11 Comments:
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Well this happened To me too. I. Said to them why fight over stupid things just think what are you fighting over ? They thought and said sorry try telling them its not worth fighting wasnt it better when they were friends hope i helped
maja
HI Jade. I know how you feel. Let them work it out. If you try to, it wont go as smoothly. My friends try that to, and it doesnt work out smoothly at all.
dont worry this happend with my pals 2, just tell them that you really hate them fighting and that u dont know what 2 do.tell them u want 2 hang out with both of them.if they shout at u walk away and tell them none of u can hang out with me until u sort this out.hope i helped.xoxoxo
Well, I have two just like Jade have. And I have been stuck in the middle sometimes. And all I tell them is "If you two won't talk to each other or work this out i'm going to stay here or i'm gonna eat my lunch with somebody else and you don't want that right?" And they would like start to tell each other they're sorry...
If they won't talk toeach other or sit by each other, then don't play with them, find a few other people to hang out with for a few days, If they really are good friends, then they'll forget this whole thing for you.
the only thing you can do that's fair is commit to going to the friend that ask you first and explain your reasoning to the other friend. if your other friend does not understand, give her some time to think and give her some space. time can heel anything! <3
Ok, listen: something similar happened to me. Well, wht i did was goig to the cinema or bowling with both and we became friends again
ok im also in a fight this week and plus my friend courtney called me the b word and this was on 4/20/10 and that made me really mad and she started spreding rumors about me and my friend being gay that made me really mad to but my mom said if she says mean stuff about you walk away
haha, cool. my names Jade too! um... i've never really been in a fight like this but i have been in a fight with one friend before! and what we did, was we pointed out what we didnt like about the other and what we did like. then, we pointed out what we know ourselves did wrong. like my mum always says," look at yourself before you look at others" hope i helped!
Give, Live, Sleep
Jade
I've never really been in that situation before but I'd do what Jemma suggested. It sounds like a good idea.
well i am friends with a really popular girl called jess and because she was so popular she had other friends....me and her other friend started having big fights.....we made life hard from her ( i am not ashamed to say this because i have learnt from it ) but what you might wanna try doing is sitting them down together and say to them how you feel about them constantly fighting....they might sort it out by talking about it but if not then you might want to ask them what they are annoyed with the other person about and dont let the other talk whilst this is happening but let her/him hear how the other person is feeling and then vis-versa
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